tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8130707396444757705.post6278232735527065079..comments2022-01-09T17:43:54.361-07:00Comments on Why the Decadence?: Trucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02209058113394941723noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8130707396444757705.post-12646256081623403942011-12-11T21:08:24.134-07:002011-12-11T21:08:24.134-07:00Thing #1 - I am so sad that you feel like a failur...Thing #1 - I am so sad that you feel like a failure. There are many, many things that one can be a failure for having done or failed to have done. But being gay does NOT make you a failure Truce. You don't know me from Adam, but please believe me on this point.<br /><br />Thing #2 - My friends were also, for the most part, very surprised to find out I was gay. Their wives, well that was another thing. They were like "duh". That's part of my struggle. I don't fit in the straight world. I don't fit in the gay world. I don't fit anywhere. <br /><br />Thing #3 - I bought a season pass this year. I am going to ski for the first time in six seasons I think. Wish me luck. Now if it would just snow in Northern California!<br /><br />Thing #4 - Happy birthday.<br /><br />Thing #5 - Happiness is the privacy of your own bedroom.<br /><br />Did I mention YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE. You are way too young to have failed. I am right and you are wrong on this point. Please don't do that to yourself.ControllerOnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04161975934417545717noreply@blogger.com